Why not?

Destination: Ixcán, Guatemala

Km from Antigua: 427

Driving time: 12+ hours

A Weekend Away

Somewhere nestled in the northern part of Guatemala, between tropical jungle canopies and tumultuous dirt roads are hundreds of small villages in an area called Ixcán. It was an area deeply affected by the civil war and in many ways families and entire communities are still rebuilding their lives. For the past 6 years Hechos 2:8 (one of the projects of Mission Impact) has been doing community development work in this area building water filters, latrines and providing education and pastoral training. So when I had the opportunity to go visit the project I said “Why not?”

I did not know that saying why not meant saying yes to a simpler pace of life and an adventure that I could not have planned: no running water, no hot showers, cooking with a wooden stove, and sleeping in a tent to avoid both the mosquitoes and the scorpions. I learned to appreciate the natural composting latrines. I watched women kill and de-feather a chicken that later ended up in my bowl for lunch. I attempted to make tortillas by hand. And I washed dishes in the pilla. We endured lots and lots of warm rain, muddy roads and flooded rivers. But what I was most impressed by is that none of this even fazed the Guatemalan men and women. They handle life with an ingenuity and calmness that I envy. Even when the water level was too high and we couldn’t cross the flooded rivers, and my natural response is to freak out, Guatemalans know how to work together, construct makeshift bridges and rafts from plywood and inner tubes and then charge people a fee to cross. They are both resourceful and creative. What may have felt different or uncomfortable for me, is normal every day life for them.

We made it back safely, a little tired, and with a tad more mud on the truck then when we started. I realized, what if I had said no? What if I had missed out on this? What if instead of saying “Why not?” I had asked, “Why?” Why should I go? Why should I take time off work? Why should I leave my comfortable home? Why? Why? Why?

The Why and Why Not

I have spent a lot of my life asking the why questions. For me why questions are rooted in fear and distrust. Why by the nature of the word implies a certain doubt or skepticism. I have always been a gifted why asker. Why should I let go of that expectation? Why should I move? Why should I try something new? And I could do on. But I am learning sometimes maybe the better  (and yes, harder) question is why not? Why not take a risk? Why not do something that feels hard or uncomfortable? Why not make a change? Why not share your dream with some one? Why not ask her out? Why not tell him how you really feel? Why not run the marathon? Why not______________? (and you can feel in the blank.)

I don’t think why questions are necessarily bad. No, quite the opposite. I think they are necessary and healthy. Just spend time with any human under the age of five.They are excellent why askers. It’s how they learn and make sense of their world.

But if why questions are the tools used to build an understanding of our world, then the why not questions are like a blank canvas inviting us to crate something new.

Start Drawing

Any artist or architect knows that sometimes staring at a blank canvas or a piece of paper is the worst feeling. It stares back at you empty, daunting and filling you with the burden of too many possibilities. And this is where the why not questions come in to play. Why not start? Just dream. Start with something. Go with your idea. Trust your intuition. Listen to that still small voice inside. I think sometimes God wants us to just start drawing.  Pick up the crayon. Start dreaming. And start asking, why not?

Why provides structure and boundaries, but why not allows room for creativity to flourish.

What are you going to say why not to?

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5 thoughts on “Why not?

  1. Gosh you’re good! What an awesome post. I ask far too many worrisome why questions and not enough why nots. I’ll work on that.

    Baby news: Thrasher had a boy (Jordan), Emily Cutrell had a girl (Amy), and Jenn Foster had a boy (Robert) all in the past week! This probably all seems so far away and not so important to you right now.


  2. Thanks Carrie. Maybe one day : ) I miss you too.

    And Helen, It’s a process for sure. One I am still learning. I don’t like asking the why not questions, but I know they are so good for me. And I love the baby news. It does seem very far away, but it’s nice to be kept in the loop. Thanks!

  3. Michelle, “why not?” is a question I have been asking my husband lately as he ponders buying his own small business, which he has never done. I am not by nature a risk taker, but the few times in life that I have asked “why not?” have paid off big time. That is how I changed careers and became a teacher in my mid-life: I asked “why not?” and that has made all the difference. Great blog! Loved your descriptions of “camping” in all that mud and having that plucked chicken for dinner!

  4. Mary, I am happy to hear this. I didn’t know that you changed careers mid-life!?! It’s encouraging to hear stories of times other friends have said something like “this might not makes sense to anyone else, but I am going to take a risk…Why not?”

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